前兩晚，媽咪跟我說起有關婚禮事宜，說一些有關當晚的細節，例如親友及朋友在當晚的坐位編排等等．．．
之後我還拿出一些生果出來，一邊食一邊傾，大家有講有笑，突然媽咪說道：『我真的捨不得你啊！．．你知嗎？當你小時候，某某太太已對我說“無論將來有錢或不有錢，千萬不要讓子女去海外，盡可能留他們一世在身邊，不然，他們便會一去不返了”．．．我擔心你沒有吃好，穿好，比人蝦呀．．．』她一邊說，眼睛已滿泛淚水，我聽後，鼻子一酸，眼淚當堂直湧，還笑著說道：『當然不會啦，我每年都會回來探你吖嗎，又或者，你過來住吓吧！現在科技通訊發達，很快便打一通電話．．．』那當然，我便直沖去洗手間，快快拭乾淚水，避免讓她看見
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其實我又怎捨得家人呢！媽咪、爸爸、細妹．．．每次一想起，鼻子便酸溜溜，可能是家中大女兒，像男性一樣，在家人面前都是比較硬朗，不容易在父母面前流淚！
媽媽，放心吧！你的女兒是堅強的，現在將去一個新的環境中，去學習怎樣去愛，怎樣去求生，這樣，才可以知道自己是否有天份去適應，沒有父母在身邊，沒有了一個倚靠，目的是逼自己拿出能力去學習怎樣在陌生環境中生活，及努力去找緊機會，還有，我身邊有一位愛我的人支持我呢！媽媽，我愛你！
hi hi, 無意中睇到你個blog，原來你就結婚，首先要恭喜恭喜！原來你蝦子餅好鬼死浪漫，令我感受到你哋好幸褔呀！我都想有個外個人嘅男朋友（佢哋浪漫D)，又可以學多D嘢，可惜我D英文屎到爆我冧要下世先有機會，最後希望你唔好覺得我唐突啦，如有打攪我要say sorry！
回覆刪除Dear Ka Yin,
回覆刪除it is really moved me after reading your blog, it shows the delicacy of your heart and love between you and your mom,
anyway, congratulation , dont forget what you have in Hong Kong, your friends, your old buddies (classmates) , your fellows, your colleaques, ......of course your family.
I understand what you feel at this moment, I am proud of you!!!
Lai King
Leung kwok kei
我以前也跟一個台灣男生交往過而且還差點到婚嫁的地步,那時我內心也爭紮了好久,所以絕對明白你的感受!
回覆刪除You mom is so sweet
回覆刪除Hihi~ nice to meet you~ I am Wendy~ I feel you are extremely sweet & 幸福 and your family is super supportive and love you!!!!!
回覆刪除I also know my bf Peter on line, he is an Egyptian, and I am now in Egypt with him for 10 months....we love each other very much, but my family is so furious and sad when they heard I have this bf. I talked with them, and no resolution...them I came here...living with him and his family, since they don't let us live alone without marriage. During all these time, no matter how many times I told my parents that I am happy here, we love each other very much, their parents are treating me like family, etc. they still think I am selfish, irresponsible to the family, ranaway like a teenage girl, they have prejudice regarding middle east ppl also....seems no way to make them happy and make myself happy. They are extremely stubborn....and Peter said only we get married, then they must accept...but you know Chinese culture, this is really disrespecing them....sorry talking about my troubles, it's really great to know your sweet story~~ Hope you 2 are happy forever and have children soon~~mixed bb must be super cute~
看到你的這篇講的內容令我回憶返我結婚前的事..
回覆刪除我都同你一樣是嫁到外地.不過我是台灣嫁黎香港
果時我媽咪也都係咁喊果時我媽咪眾激因為我是細女
係一個不同與自己成長背景的地方從新適應多少都有辛苦的一面.不過也有當中的樂趣我相信你現在是享受緊的
希望你一切順利開心..祝福你
加油
it's a long story how I left home...I came to visit Peter in April 2008, for about 10 days in Egypt and Dubai, at that time, he was working there. Then I went home telling my family about him. Their reaction is so dramatic. I told them I may want to find a job in Dubai, stay there and to understand him more. They of course strongly refused, as if I will never come back again. Then they said the whole family will go to Dubai to visit Peter, of course I was happy, like they are willing to see him. But then realized that it is just a way to calm me down for at least a while, coz all the discussion about the trip is sightseeing, only 1 dinner time is reserved for "meeting" Peter....then I asked them if I could go there earlier, then sure they refused, and no further discussion is allowed. At the same time, Peter can't eat, can't work, can't sleep, and got sick the whole period, which is just 2 weeks...all of them drive me crazy really....then I left home....
回覆刪除anyway, I am here now~ Thanks for your support, it really feels good when knowing someone with similar experience could be 幸褔 now~~
好感動呀
回覆刪除你好勇敢呀！盡情去愛你所愛的人
睇到你呢段說話，我眼淚水都湧出來...
回覆刪除hihi 土耳其新娘 , actually i met a guy in turkey also, that's why i search about turkey life..... finally i found ur blog and add ur msn also, mine is kaykaykay924@hotmail.com . Actually, I have many questions to develop the relationship with the turkey guy. But after browse ur blog, my thinking is change, i hope i can talk to you to know more about turkey life. Would you mind sharing? thanks a lot! Kay Kay~ (sorry forget to introduce, my name is kay, from Hong Kong too.)
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